So my last boyfriend totally ghosted me. Took me out to dinner said he’d text did once and then disappeared. I can’t put into words how much being left like that hurts. I couldn’t believe after 3 years fighting for us he could let go that way. It took a bit for me to accept that perhaps he didn’t love me the way I thought he did. I’ve accepted that but at times I still find it hard to believe that this would happen to me. I thought he was mine. Anywho, I was having a hard time getting closure. He obviously wasn’t going to give it to me so I gave it to myself. I wrote our love story on an old light memento I took from his old place I named Le Closet I took it before it was demolished. We fell in love in le closet so it was special to me. Writing the story was hard but in the end I felt good. I learned a good lesson. I vowed to never ghost anyone that’s just a horrible thing to do I’d rather give who ever the truth . I believe it’s not only courtesy but it’s having human decency. We are human beings with feelings and I’d like to treat people as such. I will never do what he did to me. Ever.