I’ve come to find out that “I statements” really do work. What is it about the placement of words that can abruptly change the meaning of something?Communication and linguistics is so fascinating! How something as tiny as a meta message can completely change the feel of a conversation and even over all chemistry in some cases.
Wanna talk to your beau?
Focus on you and how you felt during the incident.
No one can make you feel any such way so …just focus on how you feel and what you reacting to. For example “I feel unloved when you won’t hold my hand.”
This takes the focus off them and reminds them they have an effect on others. We all have so much power!
More than we know.
We give it to each other all the time.
I’m hopeful that love will always prevail.